Are These Signs of Masochism?

Question by Bill: are these signs of masochism?
I think my girlfriend might be a masochist.
Back in highschool she was a cutter (cut her wrists for fun).
Used cocaine.
Her favorite band was System of a Down (because of their disturbing lyrics).

I think the only reason she enjoys these things is because she finds comfort in having a disturbing lifestyle. If she is a masochist, I wouldn’t love her any less, I just want to know if the masochism is what makes her like me (I’m kinda freaky looking. 10 inch mohawk, hundreds of piercing, etc.)

Best answer:

Answer by Cassie T
None of those things make her a masochist. System of a Down is just a band. It doesn’t make her a masochist any more than liking Battlefield makes you a murderer.

Using cocaine doesn’t make her a masochist. Cocaine causes PLEASURE. Sure, using drugs harms your life usually, but the point of cocaine is to make you feel good.

Self-injury is a sign of depression, not masochism.

Stop diagnosing people.

Answer by help101
she might have had a dark past that lead to this behavior let her talk to you

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